Studies showed that children nowadays have less altruistic values and put their own happiness first more than anything. Though parents prioritize kindness as one of the top values they want to instill to their children's behavior, a survey revealed that their children's achievement ranked first.
Parents, here are some effective ways on how to instill empathy to your little children:
1. Recognize Kindness
Every time your child did something good such as offering his playmate his new toys or snack he brought, allow yourself to praise his good deed. It will mark on his thought that what he did is good. Just be sure not to overdo it for it may already lead to distraction. Also, try to help him make thank you notes. Ask him on what does he wants to say if someone did something good to him.
2. Be a Role Model
Children tend to follow what they see and whatever you do in front of them is right. So, as a parent be careful of the actions you do. Simply acknowledging your mistakes, listening to your children, and giving importance to values are already a good start. It will also help you and your child to manage your feelings and recognize flaws in a positive manner. As posted in Newsweek, children who have a parent who strongly guides them has a bigger chance of growing as an achiever and most likely succeeded in their chosen career. That would be a bonus, right?
3. Get involved and be a Volunteer
Don't be afraid to wake your child up, in reality, not everyone are lucky enough to have a house of their own, clothes to make them warm or even food to cover their upset stomach, according to Parents. They may also realize that they must be thankful enough of the blessings they received. Ignite their spirit of volunteerism by sharing to those who are in need and not expecting something in return. Encourage them to have the heart to give and be grateful to the thankful words they will hear and soulful eyes they will see.
