There are many reasons why couples might choose to adopt a child. Nevertheless, it is a popular option for making parenthood dreams a reality. For those who have the desire to do so, here are the common misconceptions and why they should be ignored.
1. The adoption process is too expensive for us.
Don't let finances keep you from adopting a child. There are many ways for every family to afford it, including loans, grants and employer benefits. Most adoption costs can be compared to the price of prenatal care and hospital delivery. You can consult a licensed adoption agency to know more options.
2. I could never love the child the same way I'd love my own.
No one can speak for how every woman should feel since maternal love is such a unique and personal experience. However, it is safe to say that the child you will adopt will be your own -- making you love the little addition to the family more and more. For one, many couples have adopted beautiful little ones and they share this 'special bond'.
3. Adopting kids from another ethnicity will bring trouble.
Creating a multiracial family is never easy as it involves differences and struggles. It will be challenging but definitely fulfilling at the same time. It's actually something to consider carefully before adoption. It will help you grow as a parent, wherein you must allow yourself to learn and nurture new sets of culture and traditions.
4. They won't let me adopt because I already have children.
This is not true. Even if you already have children of your own, you are not excluded from adopting a child. The children's age gaps as well as the position of each child within the family can surely be considered.
5. If I adopt, I will get pregnant.
Surprise pregnancies do happen. There are few cases where adoptive mothers battling infertility become pregnant after adopting a child. It may just be a lucky coincidence. However, couples shouldn't use adoption as a fix for reproductive problems for it's indeed more than that - something that is so rare, precious, worthy and lovable.
