Loud screaming, kicking and hitting are some of the behaviors children usually do when they get out of control. Be knowledgeable enough to pack yourself some super parent moves on handling them.
Parents are having a hard time dealing with their toddler during tantrums. True, they get so annoying and embarrassing especially when these happen in a public place. According to Kids Health, tantrums are more common among boys rather than in girls and children usually get out of control if they feel unease, hungry, tired or wanted something they cannot get.
Before any tantrums happen, try to do these things:
Be Realistic
Try to assess the situation and check your schedule. Ask yourself if the errand you will do will not affect your child's nap time or meal time. Bundoo suggests packing some "easy-to-feed foods" with you such as crackers or biscuits. You may also consider taking some time to feed your child before you get everything started.
Have An Agreement
You need to set expectations with your child. You must explain the whole process before going to your location. Involve them in setting guidelines and rules on what to anticipate with regard to their attitude. Ask your child to repeat the rules you have set to see if they understand and give them a chance to clarify everything.
Hence, when your child starts to have tantrums, stay calm and take these tips:
Ignore The Child
According to Parents, during temper tantrums, your child is literally out of his mind and his emotions take over. There is nothing you can do to make things better and sometimes, doing something only makes the situation worst. After your child calms down, you can talk to him.
Give A Little Space
Sometimes, kids also need some time to vent out their feelings. Just be sure they are safe and after they are able to get their feeling out, help them to patch up themselves again and regain self-control without much yelling and spanking.
Divert Attention
Try to bring him somewhere or give him something that will catch his attention and forget about the tantrums. Bring out some bright ideas that will grab his interest.
Give A Warm Hug
This might be the last thing to do but just give your child a hug, just a hug and not more than that, do not add something -- if you do that again script. Your embrace will make your child feel safe and secure. Of course, do not forget to let them know you care.
After your child has calmed down and composed himself remember to do these:
Seek Clarification
Explain to your child in your own words what happened and then ask him to clarify things. Let him speak out what is on his mind and the reason why he acted that way.
Enlighten You Child
Give your child the reason why what he has done was wrong. Tell him what are the attitudes expected from him, or you might also give age-appropriate consequences that were set on your rules prior the errand.
Well as they say, instead of treating these circumstances as a disaster, take this as an opportunity to educate your little ones.
