You have spent several hours searching for the best nanny. After a week from hiring her, you noticed that your kids cling to her more than they do to you. What do you do? While nanny-jealousy can be normal for moms, it can create stressful days. Here are some ways to overcome those jealous feelings without having to get rid of that wonderful nanny, She Knows shares.
1. Tell yourself you did a good job
Yes, it is hard to find a trustworthy nanny these days. So having found one whom your kids love, and one who is efficient at her job is something to congratulate yourself for. Remember, not all households find good nannies nowadays.
2. Consider your nanny as a partner
Instead of harboring feelings of jealousy or animosity towards that great nanny, try to think of her as your partner in taking care of your kids. In the end, you and your kids will reap the benefits.
3. No more worrying over your kids
With a great nanny at home, you no longer have to worry how your kids are doing while you're out. For sure, they are fed properly and are well-taken care of.
4. More time for yourself
Consider this, since you have a trustworthy nanny at home, you can now attend to official functions, spend time with friends occasionally, or visit the nearest salon for that long overdue haircut.
5. Imagine having a completely incompetent nanny
It may also do you a lot of good if you try to imagine having hired a nanny who happens to be the complete opposite of your present nanny. For sure, you would prefer to have the reliable one whom your kids like as compared to one who doesn't know how to take care of your kids properly.
6. Think of how grateful you have been
Try to think of your nanny's first, second or third day at home, where you have thought about how lucky you were at having found a terrific nanny. By doing this, you will remember all the good things she has done for you and your kids.
7. You will always be the mommy
Remember, no matter what happens, you will always be your kids' mom, in the same vein that "m" comes before "n." See, mommies will always come first before nannies.
While feelings of jealousy may not easily go away, try to at least overcome them. Spend more time with your kids when you can. You may try doing some activities for moms and kids, care.com suggests. Always remember, mothers are irreplaceable in the hearts and minds of their children.
