Having big obligations and responsibilities, this is what people would usually think if they hear the word "Dad." Some children would link the word "Dad" to a superhero, tough guy or expert on anything, etc. but what does it really take to become an awesome Dad?
According to a research posted by Livescience, the relationship between a child and a mother is the ultimate bond during childhood. But in the past few decades, scientists realized that fathers as much as a mother.
The director of the Center for the Study of Interpersonal Acceptance and Rejection at the University of Connecticut, Ronald Rohner said, "We're now finding that not only are fathers influential, sometimes they have more influence on kids' development than moms."
Here are things that fathers can do to become the most awesome Dad.
Acceptance of the new chapter as a parent
One must realize that a new life needs to be nurtured. A new Dad must be responsible enough and must be ready to take on the new chapter in being a provider.
Sacrifice time and be with your children
Once you have children, you can't just do whatever you want. They should be part in your decision making. Time is important and this matters most to your children. You are not deprived of doing things that you usually do when you were still single but this time, you need to spend your free time with the kids.
Tell your kids about your life experiences and have humor
Nothing beats a real-story telling. Children would prefer a story of real events than those fictional. This is also a good time for a father to teach their children of the good values and the right things to do in different situations. Tell your kids funny stories to make them laugh. This will create a special bond between father and children.
Patience is a virtue
Try your best not to lose your temper. Your children will look up to you as a good example who can control oneself behind all frustrations. Don't get tired of teaching them the right things. If a child gets mistaken, it is normal and there is always a right way to correct it.
Be firm and stand up to your decision
Parents who don't set boundaries for their children will have problems with their child's behavior in the long run. Learn to be firm in saying "NO" and give them an explanation why so that your children will understand. This will make responsible children and they will think about you as a concerned father.
Treat their mother with respect
According to Art of Manliness, showing disrespect to their mother will give them a negative feeling. Children will learn that behavior as they grow older and they will develop insecurities and emotional issues. As parents, you need to stand together.
