Having a stubborn child can be a nightmare. However, with the emergence of the latest study published in the journal Development Psychology, you might just start embracing your kid's stubbornness.
According to the study conducted on 700 children who were closely monitored from the time they were 12 years old up to 52, those who exhibited stubborn behavior when they were young tend to be more successful when they got older. This amazing study spanned four decades of behavioral changes, which yielded significant results.
Independent reported that children who broke the rules became high achievers later on in life. The same goes for those who often defied their parents. They are the ones who came out earning much in their careers when they were older.
The researchers involved in the study examined five major traits that could be identified in young children. This includes defying parents, breaking rules, sense of inferiority, impatience, and inattentiveness. Their academic conscientiousness and entitlement were also evaluated.
After 40 years, the results showed that responsible children who defied their parents and broke the rules became more successful in their careers. It is clear that it didn't stop at breaking the rules, but a sense of responsibility also played a huge factor in bringing success to these individuals.
Quoting from blog Fatherly, which summed up the results of the study in a light manner, Inc. reported, "Guess who earned the highest salaries in the end? The kids who ignored both rules and their parents." It added further, "So, if your kid always demands the bigger cookie, they'll probably grow up to demand the bigger bonus."
These defiant and stubborn kids tend to be more competitive in school. They want the best grades and would often go out of their way to achieve what they want. As adults, they are more likely to be successful as they are the ones who will not budge at the negotiation table and will always aim for the bigger piece of the pie.
