Raising a child may end up in a complicated situation once they'd grow up spoiled. Most toddlers and school aged children would tend to throw tantrums the moment that they would be able to get what they want. It is important to know how to handle the situation, especially if they're used to getting what they want.
Most parents, especially the news ones, tend to spoil their child. There's absolutely nothing wrong with giving in to your child's wants as long as you'd know when and where to stop. Though most parents would think that spoiling a child is only applicable to giving in to what they want, there's actually countless ways to spoil a child.
Showing affection isn't bad, fact is, making your child feel loved is important. The problem however, is when your child's wants would start to manipulate your decision as a parent.
When your child would insist into getting what he/she wants, that's where the conflict occurs. It's up to you as a parent on how to deal with it. Listed below are a few tips on how to un-spoil your child according to WebMD and Smart Parenting.
Stand Your Ground
It is important to stand firm when it comes to your decision. Stand your ground and let your no be no. If your child (mostly toddlers) would start screaming and throw tantrums, let it be, as it is often a sign of intimidation. The moment that you would give in to their wants, they will think that they can just get away with what they want every time they'd throw tantrums.
Be Consistent
Consistency is the key. Be consistent when it comes to staying firm, and don't change your decision once you've set your ground. Though there may be times that you'd be tempted to break it when they'd throw tantrum or give you that irresistible stare, always think of the long-term effect.
Explain
Come up with the most understandable explanation that your child can grasp. It is important to make them understand as to why you are not giving in with their wants. Educating them can lead to positive effects in the long run.
