Most people dream of finding "the one" or their "soulmate" -- someone to spend a lifetime with while loving and taking care of each other. The problem is that many people fall in love with a person thinking he or she is finally the one but ends up separating anyway.
Knowing the signs to watch out for and having a set of criteria when choosing a partner could make a big difference. WebMD shares some ways on how to know if you have found your lifetime partner.
1. You enjoy being with each other.
Both of you should enjoy being with each other. Getting tired of seeing that person should be a red flag. You do not even have to share the same interests but the two of you should enjoy sharing your hobbies and interests with each other.
2. You are proud of one another.
A good relationship should be able to strengthen your confidence and not bring it down. It is a good sign if you value each other's uniqueness, talents, skills, abilities and quirkiness. You bring out the best in each other and you encourage each other's physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and career growth.
3. You see things eye to eye when it comes to your relationship.
Make sure that the two of you have the same values when it comes to relationships. You will have a problem if only one of you prefers a lifetime commitment while the other one likes having flings and short-term relationships. You should also know and agree with each other's preferences when it comes to spending time or talking with the opposite sex, hanging out with friends or having a night life.
4. You are honest with each other.
Communication is a key to a great relationship. "Sharing thoughts and feelings is essential to developing a close relationship," the article shared. "When tensions arise -- which will happen -- you need your partner to be capable and willing to talk through those issues in a constructive way."
5. You are both committed to loving each other.
Love is more than just a feeling or an infatuation. People can fall in love and fall out of love as well.
One of the most important things in a relationship is the commitment to stay in love through the good and the bad. When the superficial things that made him or her fall in love with you go away, a true lifetime partner -- your "soulmate" -- would still be there.
Many people bail out of their relationship or commit infidelity once the honeymoon phase is over, according to VERILY. Find someone who is always willing to work with you in strengthening your bond and your relationship, someone who is committed to staying in love and loyal to you no matter what.
