Growing up as a single child can shape a person in special ways. Without siblings, many single children spend a lot of time with adults or on their own. This unique upbringing often influences how they think, act, and relate to others as they grow older.
While it is important to note that every individual is unique and not all adults who grew up as only children exhibit the same behaviors, research has identified common tendencies. Here are seven common behaviors prevalent in adults who grew up without siblings.
Independent Nature
Single children often learn how to rely on themselves. They grow up doing things on their own, like playing or solving problems. They also grow up learning how to rely on themselves for entertainment. This makes them very independent adults who are good at managing their own lives.
Comfort with Solitude
Being alone is normal for single children. They may grow into adults who enjoy quiet time or don't need a lot of company. They can be happy spending time doing solitary activities such as reading, working, or relaxing by themselves.
Sensitivity to Criticism
Single children sometimes hear a lot of praise while growing up. They are also used to being the center of attention. This intense focus may make them become more sensitive to criticism, which means comments might feel harder for them to handle. They may take comments to heart more than others.
High Achievers
Without siblings, single children often get a lot of attention from their parents. This can push them to work hard and aim high in school, careers, and life. Many become great achievers. Consequently, they may also feel a strong pressure to succeed, which will lead them to set high standards for themselves and feel deeply disappointed and unsatisfied with anything less.
Perfectionist Tendencies
Some single children try very hard to do everything perfectly. As adults, they may set high standards for themselves and want everything to be just right. This can be good but also stressful, especially if they feel like they are failing to meet the high parental expectations set for them during childhood.
Mature Interpersonal Skills
Single children usually spend more time with adults, which helps them grow up quickly in some ways. As adults, they may be good at talking to people of all ages and understanding others' feelings. This can also translate to strong communication skills and ease in professional settings.
Creative Pursuits
With no siblings to play with, single children often use their imaginations a lot. They might invent games, create stories, or explore hobbies that keep them engaged. This habit of thinking creatively can carry into adulthood. Many single children grow up to be highly creative individuals who enjoy activities like painting, writing, or crafting.
Because they spend more time alone, they also learn to dive deeply into their interests. For example, a single child who loves drawing might practice for hours and aim to create art that inspires others.
