Haven't you noticed that competitive kids are often those who achieve their goals in life? They come out the winner in sport competitions, graduate at the top of the class, and later on become successful in their careers. While some parents think otherwise, out of fear that by encouraging competition their kids will end up frustrated, there are four good reasons why competition is good for your kid.
Instilling the value of hard work
Competition benefits children in a way that they will be motivated to work hard to reach their goals. They will now have an understanding that if they want to be at the top of their class, receive a medal, or something similar, they must work hard for it. As Parents reported, Timothy Gunn, a pediatric neuropsychologist, said that children who engage in competition learn the value of hard work.
Developing self-esteem
Dr. Timothy Gunn also said that if children engage in competition, they get to develop their self-esteem. When children compete, the underlying effect is that they become more confident in what they can do. In the event that they don't end up winners, it will motivate them to do more.
Learning to a be a team player
Physical education teacher, Ronda Klosterman, of St. Joseph's Elementary School in Long Beach, California, said, "Many cooperative games teach children to problem solve as a team and help them learn the lifelong skills of working for the common good of the group."
Inspiring children to be their best and shun mediocrity
According to INEOS, one of the good things about competition in kids is that they do more than what is required. Hence, they tend to produce the best result in everything they do. This ability will prepare them for any situation in life. Whether they would be studying or working, being competitive will give them the edge.
Now that you see why competition is good for your kid, you can start encouraging them to be the best in every endeavor they face. That way, you will be helping your kid build a stronger and better future.
