Divorce is an ugly but sometimes unavoidable fact in life. Sometimes things just don't work out and you're left picking up the pieces and trying to rebuild your life. Others rise up to the challenge quickly while some may take some prodding but one thing's for sure, it's survivable.
Huffington Post's Lisa Schmidt writes about four truths one needs to know, internalize, and live to have a thriving post-divorce life. She mentions it's important to face facts, focus, realize it doesn't make you a failure, and of course, forgive yourself.
And no one's saying it's going to be easy. In another report by Huffington Post, sixty divorced women shared their experience and which advice helped them individually.
Many mention being given the chance to be listened to instead of being told what to do or how to feel. Others encourage opening a new chapter in life like reconnecting with old friends and even dating again.
But while some tips are hopeful, others are more realistic. One woman advises that you need to prepare yourself for more than just one loss. Along with your spouse, you may also lose the friends you made when you two were still married or old family members who naturally will have to stay on your spouse's side. But remember, when some doors close, others will open too.
Some used their divorce as a catalyst for reinvention. They finally realized their own potential and and pursued more in life than they ever have before. Others took a more practical approach and warned that settling your finances must be the first priority.
With many new and exciting avenues to explore and a ton of support from loved ones, divorce can not only be the end of a marriage but a start of a wonderful new life.
