Opening up about a tragic loss is a sensitive topic, most especially when you're dealing with young children. There are several ways to talk to kids about a tragic event, one of the most important tip however is to be honest.
As the war around the world progress and several bombings are flashed on the screen every so often, parents are burdened with how to explain to their young children why such tragic events occur. Though limited media exposure can help, having children unexposed to reality, however, can become a long term issue.
According to CNN, Tricia Ferrara, a professional counselor advised that children as young as five does not have to be exposed with any media coverage in terms of violent and graphic content. However, it is still important to allow your children to be aware of what's going on around the world by the time they hit the age past five.
"When we feel ourselves bombarded by images of brutal, ruthless violence and evidence of unbridled hate, the question of how to protect our children is a complex one," Dr. Claudia Gold, a pediatrician, infant mental health specialist told CNN. "We immediately jump to ask, 'What do I say?' "
Protecting young children from the weight of the world is every parent's instinct. Limiting media can be a great prevention to keep children feel safe and protected, but first hand experiences of a tragic even however could not be avoided.
According to Dr. Phil, one of the best ways to talk to your child about tragic events is to reassure them that despite the burden they are facing they are still safe and secure. Making the child feel safe can be a great way to earn his/her trust. Incorporate physical contact such as giving the child a hug, or holding the child's hands while talking.
Child Development Info then added that being truthful is one of the best ways in talking to a child about tragic events. Do make them understand that some tragic events (bombing, terror attacks, etc.) happen due to poor choices that some people make. It is important to hear out the child's opinion and make the child express and share what he/she feels about the issue without barging in.
