Our society is filled with so much disrespect and impoliteness. It is now very common to see students being rude their teachers, citizens disrespecting authorities, as well as children being impolite towards their parents. Knowing how to raise polite children is a great way to develop respect for one another in our society.
Parenting.com shared some tips on how to raise polite children. Just remember that being polite is not about being a pushover or a weakling, but about being mature and strong enough to give other people respect.
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1. Nurturing Empathy
Disrespectful and rude people are usually insensitive to the feelings of other people. That is why one of the best tips to raise polite children is by nurturing their sense of empathy. Being empathetic to the feelings and needs of other people will be the fuel for their desire to be polite.
2. Being A Role Model
Parents who are rude and disrespectful are less likely to raise polite children. Always remember that your children are constantly being influenced by your thoughts, emotions, actions and words.
3. Constant Practice
Kids cannot become polite children overnight. It usually takes time to teach kids about politeness as well as constant practice inside and outside of your home. Make sure to always gently correct impolite behavior and praise polite actions or words of your kids.
4. Get Involved In The Community
An effective way to raise compassionate, empathetic and polite children is by involving them in volunteer works in your community. It gives them the values they need to develop not just for their behavior, but for a deeper understanding of who they could be.
"Parents with young children are increasingly making volunteering a regular part of their routine, whether it's delivering meals to the homebound, planting flowers at a local park, or spending time with people with disabilities," Parents.com explains. "Volunteering teaches even toddlers and preschoolers about compassion, empathy, tolerance, gratitude, and community responsibility."
