Sharing is a concept usually beyond the understanding and grasp of most toddlers as sharing is not really in their nature. Fortunately, there are ways to teach kids how to share through teaching and practice.
1. Lead by example
Sharing personal items build the concept of sharing so avoid putting labels on items inside the house. Obviously, there are some things that remain unsafe or too precious to play with.
Instead of saying, "That is Mommy's, do not touch," say "That is not something to play with, you can play with this instead." Encourage your kids to donate or give to charity old clothes or toys they do not like anymore. Kids are more likely to share things when they see their parents do the same.
2. Start small
Since children do not really understand the concept of sharing, starting off small is the best thing to do. Teach some basic rules in sharing such as waiting for your turn or walking away from a toy means other kids are able to play with it, according to Parents.
3. Boost his self-esteem
The real reason toddlers do not like to share is because they like to hoard their possessions to build up their sense of self-worth. Validating your child's feeling by giving them love and attention will make them more likely to share their belongings.
It will also help to let them make their own decisions without any criticism to boost their self-esteem. Encouraging their self-worth will help in countless other ways as well.
4. Time it
Aside from using timers for cooking, use timers to signify when a child should share a story and when he can get it back. This reinforces the concept of taking turns, especially when on a play date.
5. Don't force a child to share
Forcing a child to share will make him feel uncomfortable and uncertain about the importance and security of his possessions. While they need to know that sharing is a must, some situations may require letting them feel safe in their possessions, according to Baby Center.
During play dates, ask them beforehand which toys they are willing to share. Putting aside toys that they do not want to share with other kids allows a great way to teach kids how to share by setting the stage.
