A middle child is perhaps the most misunderstood, neglected and underestimated member of the family. They often get stuck in a feeling of exclusion between the exalted first born and the beloved youngest sibling, and middle kids are always getting the bad reputation.
The fictional personification of a middle child in movies and television shows is often an "angsty loner" who's desperate for love. But according to "The Secret of Power of Middle Children" coauthor Katrin Schumann, middle kids, in reality, are more self-reliant and compassionate.
"They become more independent, think outside the box, feel less pressure to conform, and are more empathetic," Schumann said, Bustle quotes.
Even though a middle child or the so-called clinical term, "Middle Child Syndrome," often attracts negativity, there are also unexpected perks for being one. So in honor of National Siblings Day, here are 3 astonishing advantages of being a middle child.
1. A middle child is the least restricted.
Since middle children are the least pampered, they are also the least controlled. That's why, middle kids are risk-takers who have more opportunities to explore and be adventurous without fear while preserving the rationalism and compassion they possess, Teen Vogue notes.
2. A middle child is more creative and innovative.
Middle children will definitely agree that they are more creative and innovative than their other siblings, as per Chicago Now. The reason? Well, let's just say that the pressure and confusion to be a role model to young siblings while adhering to the rules set by the firstborn lead to their remarkable ingenious philosophy and problem-solving skills.
3. A middle child is often successful.
The desire to persevere is the strongest trait among middle children. They are less likely to give up and more willing to keep on trying.
Middle kids are also motivated to strive for excellence to show others they exist. They also enjoy strong social lives and flourishing careers, Daily Mail reveals.
For disadvantages, middle children may have a tendency to please everyone. They also tend to avoid confrontation and have a difficult time opening up or expressing themselves.
Despite being stereotyped as the overlooked and neglected middle child, they are more like the distinguished in the family, Thought Catalog reports. So, are you a middle child who enjoys the perks of being the neglected one?
