A normal part of parenting is dealing with our children's tantrums. The tantrums normally stop after addressing the issues that started it. The case is different for children with autism; their tantrums can be triggered by different reasons than other children's.
Tantrums in autistic children escalate faster into aggressive meltdowns because they cannot communicate their needs effectively. A better understanding of the causes of tantrums will prevent its occurrence, and here are ways to deal with tantrums if it has already started:
Divert To A Calming Activity.
Strictly following routine is the best way to prevent tantrums in children with autism. These kids need to feel secure and comfortable with the daily schedule that they go through. Even the slightest change in the flow of their day can trigger a tantrum.
If a schedule gets disrupted by an unplanned event, the child may become really confused and get irritated. If a tantrum happens, try to readdress the child's attention. Emax Health suggests, "Use a diversion that often makes your child happy, whether it's silly faces, singing a funny song, etc."
Reduce Triggers Around The Child.
Stimulation overload is also another cause to watch out for; children with autism have higher sensory sensitivity than other kids. Probable variables like loud sounds, bright lights or uncomfortable temperatures should be controlled.
In case a tantrum has already started because of overstimulation then bring your child to a cozy room with minimal unnecessary objects that might worsen the situation. Health Central revealed, "Think about what is in the environment and what may have caused the behavior and then address that first."
Safety Always Comes First.
An article writes, "Self-harm is one of the most devastating behaviors exhibited by children on the autism spectrum." During a meltdown a child with autism cannot control the frustration anymore and might resort to physical violence.
Immediately eliminate possible hazards around the child or move the child to a safer room. Take away any possible factor that might aggravate the situation. Inform the child's doctor and therapist if the frequency and intensity of violent tantrums increase especially if the child routes to self-harm or harms others.
