First time mom Jill Duggar Dillard caused an uproar among parents on the Internet. Recently, the reality TV star was spotted wearing a baby sling as she carried her son, Israel David, around. Pictures of the incident were all over social media sites and it's all because the parents were outraged she's carrying Israel on the sling incorrectly.
In the photo, which was posted in the Duggar Family News Facebook, Jill was with her husband Derick Dillard and three-week-old Israel. The latter was wrapped inside a sling that appeared to have dropped way low. The baby's face was also covered by the sling's fabric, prompting the public to react and pose the question: how is the baby breathing properly?
Some pointed out that slings are supposed to be higher on the mother's body, so that it is secure. The baby must also be set in an upright position to aid with proper breathing. Based on the photo, Jill did not do any of these.
"I am not a sling expert but even I knew right away that Izzy is not safe in that position," said one commenter on the fan page. Another said, "Please remember a baby shouldn't be carried that low. He should be close enough to kiss, so he should be at your chest," noting that the baby's face was almost in line with her mother's belly.
Still, there were commenters that defended the new mom, suggesting that she could be nursing, hence the baby's angle. One mother wrote, "I am really disappointed in the negative comments regarding Jill. I appreciate some people's positive response remembering she is a new Mom. To all you naysayers I bet you never made a poor decision where your family is concerned."
What do you think, parents, was Jill doing it wrong? We have a poll below for you to answer.
Meanwhile, Yahoo Parenting suggests the following tips to the best ways to carry babies when using a sling. It should be noted that it is fairly common for babies to lose their position when carried this way, so it's best for mothers to be guided.
First, the baby should be snug and close. "A carrier should honestly feel like a replacement for your arms," offers Adriane Stare, who is a baby-wearing educator, in the Yahoo piece.
Second, the baby must be set in his position with his chin up to allow for his airways to be open. His face must also be uncovered by any fabric. The idea is for the baby's breathing to never be compromised.
Third, the baby must be sitting upright and not slouching. His tummy should be next to the mother's tummy. This helps with spine alignment with the neck as well as proper breathing.
