Parents often jump through hoops to prevent their children from making mistakes and they do not let their children learn from it. When a parent bails their children out from their problems, then a parent is not letting a child learn from their own mistakes.
Even though a parent may not feel that overprotectiveness will affect their child negatively, it does affect a child's well-being. In fact, not allowing a child to commit or learn form their mistakes is making them feel that he or she is a failure or not being able to do something that he or she wanted to.
Children may also get embarrassed and feel ashamed of themselves. Apart from that, a child also gets very irresponsible and then they always depend on someone to come and save them from their problems.
According to Center For Parenting Education, when children make mistakes that is when they realize that making errors is a part of life. By making mistakes, they also understand that they do not have to be crushed or get disappointed every time they make an error, in fact they realize that they do not have to be perfect and that it is okay to be like that.
As per the Roots of Faction post, when children makes mistakes it helps them see the good and the bad side of things, which sometimes are not going according to their plans. That's why, parents are advised that they should never rescue their child from teach and every problem.
Even though it is really hard for a parent to see their child struggling and going through problems, making them learn from their mistakes is for their own good. However, when a parent feels that things are going out of hand and it can harm their child, then it is time for a parent to jump in or intervene with the situation and solve the issue or deal with their concern.
