Being a parent is a great blessing but who knows the pros and cons of it without becoming one. Sometimes the way to a destination is more interesting than the destination itself. So is the case of most of the couples nowadays.
People who come to Erica's office are often confused about what to do with the great blessing of God; that happen to manifest in the form of little devils running around the house who are also known as kids. Everything changes as a result from work to home, whether it's about the financial detail or the color of paint of baby's room. According to Greater Good, conflict is always inevitable among couples just like in any other essential avenue of life.
As far as the question of who will change the diapers is concerned, research was held for this purpose which had some limitations obviously. It was conducted with real-life couples, and the results were not so surprising but were rather obvious. The research showed that the couples that divide work among themselves are more likely to get some time out for themselves.
Relationships are the mixture of various elements. It's-all-upto-you approach does not often work in a relationship. In contrast understanding the situation and realizing that these are shared problems that can be most efficiently tackled by the couple working together rather than loading it off on one individual, is the way to grow both as a parent and as a couple.
Relationships that suffer are due to emotional instability most of the time. If any partner's needs are ignored or are given least importance to, disagreement gets ensured. Dividing work would impart an equal sense of responsibility on both the partners hence making it easier for them to spend a happy and satisfying sex life.
Talking about situations can make things easier for couples. A thing to remember is that only males are not responsible for whatever happens in a relationship neither its women all the time. A link works on the give and takes rule and remember that you have to give away something to get something back. Having said that talking things out can make things so much easier for the couple.
So cutting it short, talk everything out, let there be no curtains between you and your partner and then every moment will be worth living and will be filled with contentment.
