A child can be an angel one moment and the exact opposite the next, especially when he does not get what he wants. Children have different temperaments depending on their disposition and the specific situations they encounter. Most of the time, kids imitate what they see in their surroundings, including their parents.
Some children have a short fuse, especially when they encounter transitions and changes. Parents dread that moment when their kids get into one of those screaming fits that usually come with tantrums. That's the time when all hell can break loose.
Some mothers are amazed how one of her kids could turn out with a short fuse, especially when the siblings never acted in such a manner, according to Scary Mommy. No mother can get used to the temper tantrums of their kids, even if that happens daily.
Tantrums can come in the form of kicking, screaming and hitting, as per Kids Health. Tantrums in children aged one to three are common in both girls and boys and these can vary in intensity and occurrence. Kids usually have them when they are upset, hungry or become frustrated and those who have difficulty expressing their feelings have more tantrums than others.
The art of teaching kids to calm down is an art in itself and some parents find it hard to master that skill, according to Empowering Parents. Unfortunately, some parents could not help but succumb to their own meltdowns too when confronted by their kids' tantrums.
The best way to deal with tantrums is to prevent them from happening by showering the child with positive attention and praise for good behavior. It also helps to allow toddlers some freedom to make their own decisions even in little things. When all else fails, try to divert the child's attention once the tantrum starts.
