Fathers play an important role in children's life. Fatherhood is no longer limited to financial and disciplinary matters, as fathers can also help young people develop emotionally, psychologically, and physically. Many fathers nowadays are more than capable of caring for their kids, including children with physical and psychological issues.
Their roles have significantly changed because of the different trends in today's economy and caregiving roles. Thus, as a result, more men, specifically fathers, are getting involved in caregiving, and more women, on the other hand, are actively contributing to the economy.
While their roles are changing, the essence of fatherhood stays. Having a father in the family affects the child's success which means kids are less likely to get involved in situations such as teenage pregnancy, being expelled from school, or serving a jail sentence. A present father would hinder these issues and ensure their children are well-disciplined, per Medicine Net.
Here are the valuable tips only fathers can offer:
1. Do not be scared to be alone with your bundle of joy.
Most dads are terrified when their wife suddenly needs a break and they need to take care of their child. Usually, dads are intimidated by the thought of being alone with a child as they typically think they cannot handle it well, like their wife. If the child, for instance, cries, rather than being pressured by your thoughts, try to focus on what your child wants. Do they need a diaper change? Are they hot or cold? If not, try carrying and walking them around. Do not use a stroller as this helps to calm the baby somehow.
2. Children love to spend time with dads.
Dads have this kid-calming mechanism that only they can offer. Babies see such mechanisms as calming and warm as fathers usually talk in a low-pitched voice, which kids love even if they sit for hours. Try talking with your child using the voice they genuinely love; indeed, kids would find comfort in it.
3. Father's role in the disciplinary action.
Most women have this sweet voice that kids do not find terrifying. While children see dad's low-pitched voice as warm, you can display authority even by using the same voice, and kids would obey. Just know when to exhibit such discipline.
4. Bear in mind your choice of words.
Normally, fathers do not know their huge impact on their children. Only one hurtful word could damage the entire system of the child; thus, be careful in choosing your words and speaking up as it can affect their self-esteem, which they can carry into adulthood.
5. Choosing age-appropriate play for kids.
Dads are normally playful, and it's a normal part of the dad phase. Hence, a father must also be mindful of their children's play. Remember, bonding is also important in children's lives; thus, it must be provided to them, per Metro Family Magazine.
6. Be attentive and set aside any of your gadgets.
When children observe you are not being attentive to them, they would be hurt and would eventually not spend time with you. Therefore, when playing or spending time with your child, remember not to use any of your gadgets and focus on them. As much as possible, interact and participate in their play.
7. Be different.
Dads do not usually get enough chances to spend time with their kids as much as moms do. Therefore, be different and introduce kids to unique stuff or even a game that they will surely remember.
8. Teaching children the essence of money.
Kids normally get attracted to certain things; this could be a lollipop or some new toy. When this happens, they would ask for money from you or if you can buy it for them. Do not say no but do not say yes immediately. Ask questions about why they need it and what they will do with it instead. Afterward, educate them about how money works and what is the essence of it.
9. Be a man worthy of respect.
Kids are the first witnesses to how fathers treat their wives; therefore, show them what a man should look like. Set boundaries on what your daughter's approaches will be like with a certain man ensuring that they will be vigilant and safe at all times.
10. Admitting your mistake in front of your children.
Children usually think their parents are perfect; hence, be different and show them what a real parent is, someone who commits a mistake and admits it. This teaches kids to admit mistakes, whether accidental or not, and also educates them to say sorry. Admitting a mistake also reminds children that parents are also humans and are not perfect, per Metro Parent.
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