Who would have thought that HBO's hit series "Game of Thrones" can teach you about parenting? But "Game of Thrones" is not just the only show in pop culture that can give you some insights about parenthood but it is one of the shows that do impart some horrible tips in raising a child.
Most people know that parents are not created equal. Some are the best while others are terrible and a few are blatantly evil.
In "Game of Thrones," however, parents on the show are depicted as downright nasty, not just by ruling with an iron fist but they're also known for tormenting or murdering their children. So, here are the top 5 horrible rules of discipline in George R.R. Martin's realm.
1. The Effects Of Abuse And Manipulation In 'Game Of Thrones'
In the case of Cersei Lannister (Lena Headey) in "Game of Thrones," fans know that she loves her children but she has a funny way of showing it. In fact, she manipulates and abuses her kids. She is also to be blamed why Joffrey grew up as a misogynistic and sadistic man.
In addition, the incestuous and conniving Queen Mother of Westeros is also known for manipulating her children to gain power in the "Game of Thrones." Unfortunately, her decision has led her having no power at all.
2. Telling Children How Unloved They Are Is A Terrible 'Game Of Thrones' Parenting Tip
Another terrible parenting tip in "Game of Thrones" is constantly reminding your child how unloved he or she is. This is Tywin Lannister's (Charles Dance) rule.
"It's the family name that lives on. It's all that lives on," one of Tywin's famous lines in the series said. However, this suggests that he value honor more than love.
Tywin, however, can't conceal the fact that a parent will do anything for his children. Even though his son Tyrion ended his life, Tywin showed one of the greatest sacrifices of parenting - protecting your kids although they don't value you.
3. The Power Of Persuasive Voices In 'Game Of Thrones' Parenting
Parenting can be a tough ride and parents often find themselves needing of some good advices from friends and relatives. But one of the biggest mistakes of Stannis Baratheon (Stephen Dillane) in "Game of Thrones" is letting persuasive voices drown out his parental instincts, which ended up to the burning of his only daughter and losing his chance to take Winterfell.
As parents, you'll often get some sound advices, other even unsolicited. But always bear in mind that you have the power in making decision on how to live your life and parenting your children.
4. Favoritism And Child Neglect In 'Game Of Thrones'
If you don't want to raise children that are sadistic, manipulative, bitter, traitor or sick monster like "Game of Thrones" characters Joffrey, Cersei, Tyrion, Theon or Ramsay, love, respect and discipline your children. Additionally, never promotes favoritism because your children might go against you and each other.
5. Chaining Up Kids In 'Game Of Thrones'
No matter how bad or misbehaved your children are, chaining them up just like how Daenerys Targaryen chained her dragons in the "Game of Thrones" is definitely a no-no in parenting. The reason? Locking your kids up in a dungeon or a dark room breeds resentment and distrust and it is also a kind of corporal abuse that can lead to mental health and behavioral issues.
Meanwhile, aside from "Game of Thrones," there are also some series that have terrible TV moms. So, what do you think about "Game of Thrones" parenting styles? Sound off below and follow Parent Herald for more news and updates.
