Being a parent is a daunting task, of those who never just imagine until you have kids and become mom or dad. There are good moments and others where they do not know how it will end the day, especially when you have to deal with any des these 3 great challenges of everyday parenting moments when mealtime has become a hell, no who collect a single toy and sleep your children you need to kill patience or pine beams and bridge to go to bed.
According to the Times Recorder, most parents raise our children by reaction or imitation. When we apply the method of response we do not think about the values we want to see in our children; nor on how to shape your character, what things contribute to it positively, and how to carry out such training. As time passes correct what we see wrong with him or not, depending on the occasion. For example, if you throw a glass of water on the table react, did not discern whether by accident or by default.
In other cases, we respond to our children without having given prior instruction. Imagine a mother who glossed well the floor; it left bright. Enter your child with mud on the shoes and the mother reacts and yells. What happened? She did not give prior instruction, and when he saw the child dirtied, reacted against him. Imagine also that the next day the mother sends him to do something and the child does not.
As the mother does not know what to do, let the incident pass and does not correct. What situation deserved the discipline? So many times it happens to us. Parents spend time reacting and children receiving reactions, victims of the frustrations and lack of rules of conduct of their parents.
According to Rappler, the method of imitation is to observe what others do and do the same. If my neighbor lets her 12-year-old son attend a dance for teenagers, I do the same. With time and practice, you can go even further. Another friend of my son smokes pot, and as we all do, it is customary and "should not be so bad," we think, and I know he probably will do well ... "but hey, you have to try and learn for yourself what is good." And so we are slowly allowing our children begin a path that eventually will bring negative consequences.
