Parenting a toddler entails a lot of challenges because moms and dads have to constantly deal with the tantrums and the outbursts. It's not uncommon for parents to lose their patience at a 3-year-old pushing their buttons.
Toddlers shout, cry and stomp when they cannot get what they want but parents can best manage through the toddler tantrums by understanding that there is a process to this, as suggested by Huffington Post. Apparently, there are specific stages parents undergo when it comes to dealing with a toddler throwing a fit and it's applicable for every mom and dad.
Do these look familiar, parents? In the first few stages come denial and shock, coupled with an emotional outburst about what's happening. This is especially true when a toddler is having a public outburst and the mom is sure that there are eyes judging her.
Then comes the desperation, loneliness and panic as nothing a parent does seem to work to calm the child down. The next few stages involve different shifts of bribery (or threats), guilt and hostility, depending on what can stop the triggers for toddler tantrums.
Then comes normalcy as the child finally settles down and it is peace at last. The last stage is relaxation or indulgences. Parents dealing with toddler tantrums so deserve that glass of wine.
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Experts say that toddler tantrums are normal. It is a part of growing up and development, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics via Goodlettsville Pediatrics. Parents need to address the situation with utmost patience by avoiding yelling, spanking or displaying anger towards the child.
If you find yourself being pushed to the brink by a toddler throwing a tantrum, then remember the stages. It should help parents' sanity if they keep it in mind that as with any stages, overcoming it is achievable.
Moms and dads, you will eventually get to the last stage of wine-drinking when it might look difficult at first. Good luck with your toddler!
