The moment you found out that you're going to be a mom, you're starting to have visions of all the wonderful ways you are going to be as a parent, so your child will be the best person to walk the face of the earth. During the course of your pregnancy, you fantasized that everything is going to be perfect until your bundle of joy reaches teenage years.
Then, your baby was born. Eventually, you realized raising kids can be exhausting and overwhelming, especially for the first time parents. And here are some of the realities of being a mom:
You'll covet a more sensible ride.
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Your whole idea of latest, hot ride will definitely change. You will opt for a sensible car, especially now that you have a lot of baby stuff you need to schlep during groceries and trips.
There is no instant replay.
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With kids running the hallway while screaming and siblings squabbling, it is normal that you will lose your cool sometimes. Then, expect you will end up saying the wrong things to your child. Nevertheless, no need to worry. Just always remember nobody's perfect. The important thing is to offer an apology to your child after doing the wrong thing.
Valerie Davis Raskin, M.D., author of "The Making of a Mother: Overcoming the Nine Key Challenges - From Crib to Empty Nest" also said losing control is normal. Nevertheless, parents need to directly address the issue, instead of taking it out on the kid.
Your child will eventually insult you, despite your great effort.
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When your child is just a little baby, he is your number one fan. Your child appreciates all of your efforts, especially when you make a meal with a smiley face. However, as your child grows up, he will start to attack you verbally -- telling you your cooked food doesn't taste good or he wants to spend time with his friends than with you.
Nevertheless, no need to take things personally. It's just part of growing, Paula Spencer, co-author of "Bright From the Start" said to Parenting. You will eventually realize that your child is just experiencing mood swings, especially if he's in the school years.
