The words parents frequently use in conversation with their children are powerful tools, according to Paul Axtell, author of "Ten Powerful Things to Say to Your Kids." Simple statements that coming out from the mouths of the parents will nurture and develop kids' confidence. Hence, moms and dads should really have to be conscious of what to say and how to say it to their kids.
So, to empower your kids, here are some phrases you can tell your children:
I like you.
Always tell your kids that you like them for who they are and you like to spend time with them always. And never forget to tell your children that you love them. Axtell said both phrases 'I love you' and 'I like you' are very important and powerful sentiments.
You're a fast learner.
The author said it is much better to tell your kids that they are fast learner rather than they are smart. Emphasizing to your kids that they are fast learner can "equate success to working hard." While telling them that they are intelligent can possibly be confronted with tougher classes and their confidence might be shaken quickly.
Tell me more.
Axtell advised that it is important for parents to give their children at least 15 undivided minutes of their time each day. This will give time for both parents and children to have a meaningful conversation. More so, it will make kids feel that their parents listen to them and they care for them.
Let's read.
Introducing books to children can enrich their minds at the same time it can develop a special bond. Moreover, reading with kids can better prepare them for life.
We all make mistakes.
Kids normally get upset about not meeting their parents' expectations. They are under the false impression that their parents are perfect. Talking about their mistakes, telling them that it's okay to make mistakes as they can learn from it can cultivate a healthy attitude about dealing with problems.
Your love for your children is as important as your words and actions to make them feel it. Being careful with your words and being more appreciative parents can really do wonders to your kids.
